This is Knot-the Problem
“... that He which has begun a good work in
you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ.” Philippians 1:6 (AKJV)
Bella is my Sheltie;
her name is Italian for beautiful and
she is aptly named because this is the first thing everyone notices about her. A
major reason Shelties are attractive is their long, silky fur, but because it
is thick, it gets knotted easily. The other day as I was grooming Bella, she
kept wiggling so much that I couldn’t brush her and I knew she was getting
frustrated with how long her “beauty treatment” was taking and honestly, so was
I!
I was ready to give up but it was then that the Lord whispered
to my heart: “Do you know that you do that too, Sandy? Your life gets tangled
up and you get impatient and run away when I try to comb out the knots.” I realized that He was right. You see Bella’s
fur tends to get matted and getting out the knots is time consuming and
anxiety-filled, but there is no other way to unravel the mat. It would be much
easier to just cut out the mats, but if I cut out every mat that she gets,
she’d be nearly hairless.
Occasionally
the mats are so bad that I do cut them out, but usually she must stand still
while I work them out. She is never happy when I get out the comb, however, for
the most part she lies there patiently, but only for so long; then it becomes
too much and she gets up and runs to another room. Of course, this only delays
the inevitable, but being a dog, she doesn’t understand, but as her master I
know the knots have to go or they’ll get worse.
How often do we do this with God? Our season is
unpleasant and our lives get tangled, so we come to God and ask for His help.
He starts to comb and detangle but we keep getting up and going to another
“room”, far away from the Groomer! Occasionally He just takes the mats away,
but more often than knot, (I couldn’t resist) removing the tangles in our lives
is a process, one that we must willingly sit under.
In this unprecedented
season you may feel like you’ve “remained” as long as you can bear…you are no
longer able to walk out your usual activities or enjoy most of your
relationships…in a sense you and I have been called to stand still too, for a time.
But we must continue to choose to remain in the place we find ourselves as the
Father uses our “stillness” to unknot various areas of our life…like I do for
Bella…only infinitely better!
Now admittedly some of Bella’s knots are just from her
daily existence of being a dog, but other times she goes into the woods and
gets jiggers in her fur, however either way, she needs help to get them out. I’ve
learned that our life’s tangles are the same way; some are just par for the
course of being human and other mats we bring on by poor choices. But God is
merciful, He patiently helps us every time we get all knotted up, whether they
were through no fault of our own or if they occurred while we were chasing things
that led us to places we should never have been in the first place.
Not only does He help us, He also knows when we have
had all the “beauty treatments” we can stand and He lays down the comb and lets
us go. Yes, it lengthens the process, but He knows that we are merely humans,
who are prone to tangle and likely to wiggle. So, He waits, calling our name,
His hands stand ready to help and His heart longs to embrace us and the
absolute best part is that all the while He is detangling the mess of our
lives, His hands never leave us! He who calls us is faithful to finish the work He has begun in you and me! What a joyous promise that is ours in this season of anxiety and the great unknown!
Well, I’ve gotta go, He’s calling my name again; it
must be time for my next beauty treatment!
Father,
Thank You for loving us despite the tangles in our life. Please come and help us
trust You enough to stand still as You continue to work out the knotted messes
we have made. Come work in us during this season of “stillness” and please remind
us Lord that all the while You detangle our life; Your loving hands never leave
us in this season or any that are to come. Amen